Checking the Importance of Your Values Against Your Outcomes

  • Sit quietly for a moment after you calm your thoughts.
  • Answer the following questions carefully and in writing:
  1. What is most important to me about this outcome? ( please clarify and name ‘outcome’)
  2. What will I see, hear, and feel, when this outcome occurs?
  3. How much more important is this outcome than a belief that it can’t happen?
  4. Does this outcome support the other things I have and don’t have, which are important?
  5. How valuable is it that I can start to do it?
  6. How does ‘I can do this outcome’ support my important values?
  • Now review your written answers to each of the above questions.